Day 24-Something you've learned

The main thing I've learned lately is patience.  With TJ, I would go from 0-60 really easily.  If he didn't do something, or if he did something he wasn't supposed to, etc.  But after having Kali, I have definitely learned to pick my battles carefully and not jump at the first 'wrong' thing he does (or doesn't do).  That has been a huge learning process for me.  It started when I was in my last trimester.  I didn't want to be "that" woman that was all hormonal and stuff.  So I just learned to let things roll off my back.

I think I've become more mellow too, which is nice. Considering I was pretty high-strung before.  Someone asked me recently what I do to relax. And for the life of me I couldn't think of anything that I do simply to relax.  I read (on my Nook which is fabulous), but if something has to be done I put it down and do it.  I shop, but dang sometimes that's more stressful than relaxing.  I hang out with friends, but with Kali now-a-days that's not as relaxing either.  I've had to see a chiropractor because I'm even tense when I sleep. HAHA

So I've learned to be more patient and relax.


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